Pareen Lathia community builder · founder operator · occasional coder
cold start lesson

win fifty whales by hand

for a high-value product, win fifty to a hundred whales one by one with private demos. two strong intros beat thirty small contacts.

whalesselling

what to do

When each customer is worth a lot, aim at 50 to 100 whales and win them one by one. Keep validation private with direct demos. Two strong intros to the right people are worth more than thirty cold contacts. Raise money after you have that traction.

for example

A solo founder I met had built a lending product aimed at large holders. He was about to put up an invite-only waitlist and work a conference room. For a product like that, a public waitlist signals weakness. A handful of private demos to the right whales, carried in on two warm intros, does more than a room full of small talk.

the failure it prevents

Spreading thin across many small prospects who will never move the number, while the few accounts that matter never get a real conversation.

when this doesn’t apply

If your product only works at scale with thousands of small users, chasing whales starves the network. This is for high-value products where trust takes a demo.